春节临近，又到了一年一度回家团聚的时刻。然而，对我来说，这个团圆的时刻却充满了烦恼。因为，我总是被父母逼着给舅舅带礼物。
这种「连坐式孝顺」让我非常反感。我觉得，孝敬长辈没错，但不应该通过这种方式去表达。给舅舅带礼物，看似是尽孝，实则是一种负担。我不愿意为了迎合家人的期望而牺牲自己的感受。
在这个问题上，我并不觉得自己不够善良。相反，我觉得自己很真实地表达了自己的内心感受。我希望，未来的日子里，能够勇敢地说出自己的想法，不必为了所谓的孝顺而压抑自己。
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Title: Refused to buy gifts for my uncle during Chinese New Year, feels like I’m not being honest enough
Keywords: Chinese New Year, parents, gifts, uncle
During the Chinese New Year, it’s the time for families to come together for a reunion. However, for me, this reunion is filled with worries. Because every year, I’m always forced by my parents to buy gifts for my uncle.
This \”bosom-pocket\” filial piety has made me very 反感。I think it’s true to be kind to elders, but it shouldn’t be expressed in this way. Giving gifts to my uncle is seemingly filial piety, but it’s actually a burden. I don’t want to do it just to please my family.
On this issue, I don’t think I’m not being honest enough. In fact, I think I’m being very authentic in expressing my inner feelings. I hope that in the future, I can bravely speak out my thoughts without sacrificing my own integrity.
【来源】https://www.zhihu.com/question/623836591
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